This includes extreme sports which requires a great deal of training time and ... I’ve expressed my concern, but he thinks I’m just being silly, and he doesn’t understand why I feel left out. Is this normal? – Left at Home Dear Left at Home ...

I’ve expressed my concern, but he thinks I’m just being silly, and he doesn’t understand why I feel left out.”

My husband and I have been married for more than 50 years and we have recently retired. I was looking forward to the free time to do more of the things we had talked about doing together. We have always been friends as well as spouses.

It's great to do some things on your own, but some couple excursions would help these newly retired spouses to enjoy their increased free time.