Defensiveness feels like strength, but it’s actually weakness dressed up as control. Think about it: when someone critiques you, do you immediately push back, explain, or accuse? That’s reactivity — not strength. The strongest people know the importance of a tactical pause. They hit pause before they defend. In that pause, they breathe, they listen, and they choose curiosity over impulse. Instead of lashing out, they say, “Tell me more.” It doesn’t mean they agree. It doesn’t mean they give in.
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